
It’s been more than 10 days since I returned from my wonderful trip to Texas. I’ve been sifting through the 500 pictures and many pages of notes, checking my facts on the Internet, and designing this piece of “cover art.” So it just APPEARS that I’ve been a lazy blogger.
Also I’ve been going to work every day, trapping raccoons (5 now), and trying to stay ahead of the weeds in the garden. And while I’m doing the other things, I’m thinking about the trip, about my friend Merlene, and about how wonderful it is to have friends from long ago.
Merlene and I have had far different lives since high school. I’ve had a pretty “white bread” existence, while her life has had more challenges. I’ve always thought her very brave and capable.
My job in education is primarily accomplished in a nice office, with a computer. I don’t see real students at work, though I’ve been fortunate over the years to have great kids in my 4-H projects.
Merlene teaches troubled teenagers who have real problems, not a job many of us would volunteer to do. For some of them the school she works at is their last chance.
But this is not what intimidated me about her. She is only a year younger than I am, but she remembers details, facts, and figures. I was amazed. We’d drive along and she’d point out some globby rock formation (Texas has a variety of them) and tell me how they were formed, what their names are, and a host of other interesting factoids. This was balanced by a fair assortment of local gossip in towns where she’d lived. I not only had a good time, I learned a lot.
A lot that I’ll promptly forget because I remember concepts, not details, (or maybe I’m just senile) but what a treat!